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Does anxiety ever really go away?

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SaveFerris1 · 23/01/2019 09:52

About 18 months ago I suddenly and out of the blue became very anxious. Was going through a stressful time at work and was exhausted (night shift worker). I started on propanalol and reduced my hours and started to feel better. I gradually came back off propranolol and felt like I went back to 'normal'
This weekend the crushing anxiety has come back with a vengeance, as far as I can tell, from nowhere. Not stressed, not tired. My anxiety seems to focus on dying/illness and in my case I'm always convinced I'm having a heart attack. And although I tell myself I'm not, the catastrophic thoughts won't go away.
Do you ever recover from anxiety? Is this just a blip? Should I be going back to the doctors and asking for beta blockers again? I'm just sad that I thought I had beaten it and yet here I am

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Stressedout1984 · 23/01/2019 11:59

Really sorry, but in my case no. I started with anxiety in my younger teens. I’m a massive over thinker. I can go a while between attacks though 18 months at one point. In my case it’s back now worse than ever. I changed job in the summer to reduce stress of long hours n stressful position in the company I kinda wish I hadn’t bothered now as I’ve found not having as many hours worse as I’ve got more time for over thinking . At least when my job was stressful I could concentrate my anxiety towards that. Take a deep breath it does get better. I would suggest talking to your doctor again even if it’s just to keep them in the loop on how your managing and take advice from there.

TinselAndKnickers · 23/01/2019 12:04

Sorry to hear that, you two Sad

On the flip side, I can say that mine has definitely got better! I have struggled with it for over 10 years, having ups and downs, but now I am sooo good at reigning in my thoughts (most of the time). It was very hard to begin with but now I feel so much happier and enjoy my life a lot more, even the shit parts Grin

I hope you both manage to get on top of it more, it truly is horrible Thanks

SaveFerris1 · 23/01/2019 15:36

Yep, think a wee visit back to the doc might be a good plan. Thanks for taking the time to reply

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Adviceplease8181 · 23/01/2019 20:09

Yes.

I had very severe health anxiety which I think bordered on psychosis at times - crisis team to visit, saw psychiatrist.

I recovered. It was time and gradually learning coping mechanisms.

KarBB · 24/01/2019 07:36

I think I am probably and AD lifer. I started getting panic attacks & GAD as a young adult, finally overcame it with the help of ADs, therapy etc... then after 10 years came of them as I thought I was better and had a big relapse a few months later... ended up back on them & the experience was so unpleasant I gave no intention of coming off any time soon. Part of the issue for me was that I had to wait about 6 months before I got to see an NHS therapist which was too long to endure w/o getting back on the meds (I managed a month but was deteriorating fast & ended up signed off work & in a terrible mess - obsessive thoughts about my parents dying was unbearably distressing). I do wonder if I could have recovered without meds had I received another intervention sooner but tbh I'm not sure. I think it varies between people & we should feel proud to have overcome and be coping with such a debilitating condition whether we're taking meds or not. Certainly for me the ADs are not an instant fix and it took a huge amount of perseverance and strength to get through the crisis period & come out the other side. Whatever you end up doing try to go easy on yourself! Thanks

ChangoMutney · 24/01/2019 07:44

Yes, I suffered from anxiety for about 17 years I didn’t take any AD’s and it was really bad. Then I ended up having some counselling, it’s not cheap and I went every week for two year to a counsellor I trusted and liked. I can’t remember the last time I was anxious and even if I was it was likely to be a ‘normal’ degree. I am so much happier and back to Being me again, I stopped the counselling about a year ago and haven’t looked back. There were times when it was really tough and I wanted to stop because I was fed up with feeling battered by all the emotions that were being brought to the surface, but my goodness it was worth it.

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