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Tinder 2 weeks after breakup?

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Maddi04 · 20/01/2019 04:21

I don’t know why I care I couldn’t even look another man just now wish it would stop hurting feel like I’m grieving so much while he’s swiping I wish I was strong enough to not care but it hurts so much especially last few months of being their for him throughout his suacide attempts by his bed in hospital feel so betrayed honestly beyond heartbroken I had to write this down can’t sleep and feel like I’m going out my mind ☹️

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SleepWarrior · 20/01/2019 04:32

Don't torture yourself. Don't look him up online at all. Maybe he's an asshole, maybe he just wants to get back out there to numb his own sadness at how things ended, I don't know the backstory.

Bottom line is you aren't together - knowing what he's up to will prevent you from finding your own peace and moving on.

I'm sorry though, the end of a relationship is bloody hard. Hang in there Flowers

Justagirlwholovesaboy · 20/01/2019 04:36

You are worth more than this, stop playing the pity card, if you need help then counselling is there. You are not a victim, you are better than that, you could be amazing if you want

ShirtyFlirty · 20/01/2019 04:46

I hope you feel better soon and you will about the breakup.

I wasn't ever sad about losing a partner, I was sad to lose the friendship, because I did enjoy their company.

Betrayal isn't a nice feeling at all.

Loyalty goes in a breakup.

In time it hurts less and you see people in a different light.

Maddi04 · 20/01/2019 05:27

Thank you for ur comments I haven’t lot of rl support so extra hard at moment the sleeping till 8/9am isn’t helping going to doctors on Monday to have a chat x

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