So I’ve got 3 sisters, they all know about my past with chronic anxiety/depression.
Two sisters I can talk to and feel at ease with , and occasionally go to visit for an hour. They understand if I can’t get out, do things etc they accept it. I’m glad to see them and they me.
The other sister, I have been close to many years back.
I remember her saying to me one time, “you just have to do it” and few others lines similar.
Yet she can’t drive over any bridges that mainly have roads underneath!
I think this as stuck with me, as I don’t feel comfortable around her because I know she may bring up my mh issues so hardly see her
I just feel she thinks I’m just going to over come it, I’ve had it nearly 35 years on/off.
I feel bad sometimes that I don’t go round to here house yet others I have to say to myself
“I am what I am”
I texted her today to say “. Thinking about you” she’s having operation
I got back few sentences about it. Then
“Hope your ok ?”
It really bothers me when she asks, but not the other 2 as much
I just said , I get out when I can and accept that that me
She texted back with Do what you can do
I just feel like she patronising me, I hate her asking me anything I feel so uncomfortable