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How to clean when depressed?

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Espanio · 23/12/2018 13:25

I'm looking for tips on how to clean when depressed. I have over 2 weeks worth of washing up etc to do :(

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OldPodge · 23/12/2018 17:39

I use the timer thing too. Am so impressed OP. Sounds like you’ve got loads done today. Flowers

Glitterkitten24 · 23/12/2018 18:16

I’ve been there too with depression- as much as you can’t be arsed doing it, I do think It’s good for your mental health to try and keep tidy, or certainly it was for me.

Set a timer for 15 minutes- pick a room and work only for those 15 minutes, but as fast as you can. Grab a bin bag and bin anything that needs it, do the dishes, or a quick hoover- you can force yourself to do anything for 15 minutes. Then reward yourself with a cup of tea. Repeat again find you have the energy. I tried to do 3 x 15 minute blasts a day when i was at my worst.

nicoala1 · 23/12/2018 18:32

My darling mum died two weeks ago now. To say I couldn't care less about Christmas or prep is an understatement.

My dear and precious DH sent me off with my friend for a coffee three days ago, and when I got back EVERYTHING had been done. Floors mopped, vacuuming done, beds changed, bathroom cleaned, driveway swept and so on.

I actually burst into tears. He knew I had no interest in doing much. He is a diamond.

BTW he does help around the house, but this was different. House neglected bigly during mum's last illness.

I am very sad of course, but at least the fact that the house is presentable is helping.

I hope you will be OK my love, sounds like you are getting there. Wish you well.

Back to the box of tissues with me now. Grief comes in waves.

speakingtruthfully · 23/12/2018 18:40

Well done , you've done loads , I hope you are feeling a bit better xx

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