My darling mum died two weeks ago now. To say I couldn't care less about Christmas or prep is an understatement.
My dear and precious DH sent me off with my friend for a coffee three days ago, and when I got back EVERYTHING had been done. Floors mopped, vacuuming done, beds changed, bathroom cleaned, driveway swept and so on.
I actually burst into tears. He knew I had no interest in doing much. He is a diamond.
BTW he does help around the house, but this was different. House neglected bigly during mum's last illness.
I am very sad of course, but at least the fact that the house is presentable is helping.
I hope you will be OK my love, sounds like you are getting there. Wish you well.
Back to the box of tissues with me now. Grief comes in waves.