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I'm struggling and I don't understand why.

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OCDanxiety · 24/11/2018 20:22

I have OCD, anxiety, PTSD and depression, alongside many physical health problems. I was diagnosed in my teens with my mental health issues but I can remember having certain feelings and doing certain rituals as a very young child.

After ending up having to access the local mental health crisis team last year I was put on some medication (Quetiapine, it's an anti-psychotic) because anti depressants don't seem to work well for me and make me feel much, much worse. The quetiapine has helped and has recently been increased as I have been struggling a lot. My GP has re referred me back to the local mental health team and I am waiting for them to contact me.

For the last few months now I have noticed a decline in my mental health, which is why I sought more support from my GP. My anxiety is very high, to the point that my OCD is crippling me both mentally and physically. It is taking me a couple of hours to get to bed on an evening, more if DH is on nights/twilights. The rituals are long drawn out, quite involved and very specific. I have had several rounds of CBT in previous years, but even this isn't helping now as the anxiety seems to have a firm grip on me.

I am lucky to have a wonderful DH, MIL and a couple of friends who all know me and support me. I am struggling to talk to them about this increase in my anxiety/OCD and decline in my mental health. DH works in a rewarding but, at times, dangerous job and I hate to put further pressure on him by way of me talking to him about the decline in my mental health and making him worry about me/the DC/the house etc while he is working. I don't want to speak to my friends about it as they have enough going on in their own lives as does my lovely MIL.

I am again having suicidal ideations/thoughts, I am nowhere near as bad as I was last year (I made plans last year) and I am safe as are my DC but I'm scared. I don't know what the trigger was to bring about this mental health decline. I was doing okay, I was on an even keel and then one morning I woke up and everything was bleak again.

OP posts:
tierraJ · 25/11/2018 18:28

Sometimes people do get ill again for no specific reason.

Tell your gp you are having this suicidal ideation as they sound quite helpful.

Hopefully the mental health team will contact you soon & will be of further help.

It's often easier to talk to strangers about mental health problems than to family.

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