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Is there an 'end of the road'?

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squirralthetime · 23/11/2018 22:09

In physical health, it's acknowledged when people are terminally ill and standard medicine to prolong life is no longer useful.

Is there an equivalent in mental health? Is there a time when we must stop intervening and let the person choose their own path?

I know someone who has been confiding in me for some time. They are bright and responsible and a classic 'if you didn't know about the problem you wouldn't think there was one'. But I know they have been depressed for years. Bouts of medication and or therapy smooth things over for a while. but it always returns to rock bottom.

When have I done enough? They know safe spaces and help lines and self-referral and GPs and psychs and crisis teams and therapy and medication.

When is it time to step back? When is it terminal?

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FissionChips · 24/11/2018 00:14

You should step back before it starts affecting your own wellbeing.

People with such mental health problems need professional help.

beeefcake · 24/11/2018 00:33

You raise a really interesting point. However I think the difference is that a terminal illness will kill you, no matter what treatment you have.

A mental illness (say depression) doesn't have to be terminal. If you respond to a medication and therapy, you can treat it so it doesn't reach that critical point. Most people with depression don't die of suicide.

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