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Ttc is getting me down

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London91 · 27/10/2018 15:20

I've been ttc for 2 years now. I had a miscarriage in September of last year. Everyone around me is pregnant and I'm happy for them. I'm just down with my own situation. I'm just losing hope. I feel for my partner in all of this because I'm so miserable all the time. I know he understands because he's going through it too. But he's better at being more positive about things than I am. I am booked in for a lap for suspected endo in a months time. It just feels like a lifetime although I know it really isn't much longer to wait. I'm just fed up of everyone making comments like 'it'll happen for you' or 'Well you've managed to get pregnant once'. The 'helpful' comments don't help lol. I just try to keep it short because I know sooner or later I'm going to lose my shit because the comments come from people who have had no problems with getting pregnant or holding a pregnancy. Just feeling a bit sorry for myself right now. 😔

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MrsWagnerpies · 27/10/2018 22:25

Hi London. I think you're allowed to feel sorry for yourself. Its shit and doesn't seem fair.
People say stupid things when trying to be helpful. (Probably me too)
Maybe it's OK to express your feelings sometimes rather than always holding it together.
Flowers

London91 · 27/10/2018 22:37

Hey,

I know people mean well and most says I can agree and just listen to their comments. I know that when it happens for me all of these feelings will just go away but it's hard watching those I love going through a healthy pregnancy, it just seems effortless to everyone around except me. Just getting me down.

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