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My friend says her bf is the cause of her mental health

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Meagain17 · 11/09/2018 16:03

Need some advice,
Ok so my friend has always lived with depression and maybe other undiagnosed mental health but is currently on anti-psychotics.
She's had relationships issues most of her young life but has been with current partner 2 years and have a young child together.
Her partner- in her words- "plays mind games" "false promises" "controlling behaviour" which I don't doubt as I have seen them both together and there not a healthy couple. However what worries me is she can't break up with him no matter how much I feel she should and so does she. At least 3 times a week she will say right I'm never speaking to him again but then the next day he's at her house. When they argue she takes her children early hours from there beds and takes them to him house so she can argue with him-in front of the children, she rings him at 3/4am hundreds of times (no exaggeration) she literally does go psycho. There has also been domestic violence, also in front of the children.
No amount of talking helps her and I just need advice on how I should help her?
I've missed loads out but what can I do to help her?

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Cliveybaby · 11/09/2018 16:08

I'd be more worried about the poor children to be honest... they're the innocent victims

Meagain17 · 11/09/2018 16:11

I know me too, what can I do to help them? If I help her it will help them too. She's only really got me as a friend and no close family so I'm stuck

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