His dad died in February after a long illness. He was exhausted working and then visiting hospital daily, with a 2 hour round trip to take his mum home after. It took him several weeks to arrange everything up to the funeral and several months after to deal with legal things. Also his mum had a blood clot in her leg and following a fall, was in hospital and then a short term care home, before going back home. She has been visited by carers, which he had to put in place as an emergency package as she refused care and couldnt cope as frail and using a Zimmer frame. He got shouted at for many things including having her kitchen sink unblocked. She's just been complaining in the phone to him that he's not doing enough with DS and me in the school holidays.
His relationship with his mum is very strained and he's been seeing a counselor for stress. She won't have any more carers and I'm having to do all her washing and cleaning. It's a 2 hour round trip to her house for me (no car)
There are no other relatives and I can't let DH get any worse. He looks ill and close to a breakdown