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Mental health

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i cant do this anymore

8 replies

paranoidfreak · 09/05/2007 23:17

i am starting to feel like i wish i wasnt here anymore.dp is going to leave me cos i keep questioning him about stuff and getting paranoid and hes fed up with it.im not surprised cos i dont deserve him anyway im fat and stupid and have nothing to offer.i have to stay alive for my children.i dont know what to do

OP posts:

hairymclary · 09/05/2007 23:29

hi paranoid, have you been to see your GP about how you feel?

fakeblonde · 11/05/2007 09:30

If you do one thing this week please go and see your gp.
You sound like your not enjoying life at all and so you need to do something to change that .
There is no shame in asking for help and its very important for all of you that you do.
Talk on here if it helps and youll hopefully get some support, but please ask for an appt. with your doctor-youve got nothing to lose and only a much happier life to gain x

squidette · 11/05/2007 09:36

How about starting with changing your name?

Feeling fat and stupid and undeserving sounds like a really sad place to be. There is a really bright spark in your post - that you are aware of how you feel. I think this is a really important part of starting to look for help

You can see your GP, or talk here, or try something like MoodGym or read some of the factsheets on the MIND website. Most of all, realise that this is something you can change while at the same time, knowing its not 'wrong' to feel your feelings, however low and self-defeating they are.

chocolatte · 12/05/2007 11:06

Hi PF. How are you today? Please go and see your doc, you'll feel much better. CAn anyone look after your little ones to let you and your dp go out for a few hours and have a chat about things away from home? Take care xxx

chocolatte · 14/05/2007 10:34

PF? ARe you there? Come back and let us know that you're ok x

Londonmamma · 14/05/2007 10:40

Hi there, it really does sound as though you are suffering from depression and need some treatment/support. Please do speak to your GP about how bad you feel and ask what help is available in your area. Please come and tell us how you are xx

zizou · 14/05/2007 19:36

Hi, Pf, that is very sad..... I am sure you are not a pf...... .....please take the time to go to your gp and get some help, and keep posting, you will get lots of support here.....

chocolatte · 15/05/2007 20:38

PF, I feel like I'm stalking you but I'm worried! Are you ok? Let us know how things are with you. x

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