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He needs to open up

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Yourmentalhealthmatters2017 · 22/03/2018 15:53

I've been in contact with this guy since the start of December.

We met up and I've stayed at his flat.

We were in constant contact since December but now out of no where he's stopped replying but can see he's looking at my profiles etc.

You may say get over it, but he has and is very open about his mental health which I am too that's why we clicked so to speak.

I don't know if I should keep trying to contact him or leave him to get in touch with me.

Help please anyone been in this situation? Xx

OP posts:
lattewith3shotsplease · 23/03/2018 12:58

OP,

He has MH issues, like you do, he maybe having a bad time at the moment.

Just give him his space and see what happens.

Yourmentalhealthmatters2017 · 23/05/2018 16:46

Last night I was speaking to him

Out of the blue and context he told me he wants a baby with me and to move.

I obviously was a bit shocked and laughed I said where's this come from he said my councillor said I need to be more open.

I haven't really spoken to him since which isn't unusual but is this councillor putting things into his head or is it him... atm he's the happiest I've seen/ heard.

I'm very sure and secure with my self atm and up for moving but not baby atm

OP posts:
JamPasty · 24/05/2018 21:39

That would seem a worryingly fast development even without the history of him being so variable in being in contact.

chavtasticfirebanger · 24/05/2018 22:05

Run. This is frightening and the MH is just a cloud-under that there are lots of red flags. Too fast, and also oversharing-nobody would come out with that after so little time.
Why would a counsellor advise someone to ask their friend of 6mths to have a baby? They wouldn't. And also, why move? So he can get you away from your support network? Honestly my senses are tingling for you, please don't meet him again. Does he know where you live?
This is potentially dangerous OP. Keep your eyes open and share nothing else about you.

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