Why do I feel like this, I’m in my fourties with two teenagers who are my world and they make me so happy, I’m into my third year in a relationship but it is not going anywhere, he works all the time and I’m left on my own, we don’t live together and we are lucky if we spend 3 hours a week together ! He is such a honest and loyal person but with previous relationships I’ve always been left at home on my own and that’s where I am again, my parents think I should just move on and find somebody who loves me and wants to spend time with me, it took me such a long time to trust this man and I don’t think I can start again but living in hope with this man is getting me so down, all I do is hope and pray he changes and wants to commit too me more, should I stay feeling like this or cut all ties altogether and hope one day I do find my soul mate ? Confused is beyond words 