About 15 months ago, after 4 months in our own place, my husband had a mental breakdown and we had to move into his parents home to have him taken care of while I worked. My husband blamed the flat we had moved into for his poor mental health and said he'd felt lonely and scared because of the area we were living in. We decided to give up the flat and place our names back on the council housing register in the hopes of finding somewhere nicer to live. I fell pregnant a few months later and my husband attended CBT for a year, which he recentally was discharged from. Since having our son my husband was in a good place. However, we have now started being offered houses from the council, a few in not very nice areas we have turned down but the most recent was in a lovely quiet area and my husband has admitted that he has started to feel depressed again since being offered housing as he is not ready to move out of his parents home! I feel like I have done my part by moving in with his parents and getting him help. I can't stand living here any longer - we live in the spare room with our son and the house is overflowing with our belongings. My husband thinks I should understand that he needs more time but I want him to try to face his fear of living alone again. We lived together in another town for 3 years before moving home and there were no issues about living alone. My parents and his mum are telling me to accept the house we have been offered and to move into it with my son and hope my husband comes too. But I'm afraid this will push him over the edge or make him hurt himself. They're hoping it will make him seek help. I have until the end of the week to decide and I'm completely stuck.