I love this medication.
We have been tinkering for about a year with medications both under the GP and psychiatrist.
Was on Citalopram before gp weaned me onto Venlafaxine. If this didn't help I would have been referred back to psych. In a way I enjoyed Citalopram it seemed better than previous meds, but it made me so sedated.
Ven, however, is like the miracle drug for me. three side effects but they are manageable. Lucid dreams which I have had on every single medication, but unlike others, I can wake from the dreams if I need to. Which for me is a huge relief.
The second is the weight loss and lack of appetite. I had this on sertraline. I got through this by eating when I was actually hungry. So I had the crappy kids cereals because of the high calorie along with full fat milk, no semi skim or diet anything. Full fat, full everything. Cereal bars again not good for you. Soups including things like cup of soups. Quick boil rice like the golden wonder. Pot noodles etc. Full fat cheese for cheese on toast.
Everything I ate was calorie high and max 10 minutes to make/heat up. But not heavy. I found that if I hadn't eaten in this 10 minute window, the appetite went.
Liquids included mainly milk, water and when i could smoothies. I was reminded though not to rely on liquids too much because the stomach gets used to this.
The third, my periods have massively slowed down. This is awesome, and I have decreased other meds I was taking for this. So I am not complaining.
It's a case of trial and error to find what works for you, and to find out what side effects you are going to compromise with.
Some I came off after a day because of the side effects and said hell no am I ever taking that again. And I didn't I was given something else.
Side effects usually subside within about 6 weeks and this is when you notice if it's for you or not. Sometimes the dose might just need upping, other times the meds simply arent' for you.