Bit of a long one.
So I have two girls ages 5 & 9. They go to their dads every other weekend, everything has been fine apart from a couple of incidents. I have a court order in place as he kept keeping the children as it wasn’t a mutual break up he was very controlling and got violent towards me. So it’s been fine since the order was put in place but for the last 2/3 months my 9 year old hasn’t been wanting to go keeps saying he favours her sister 5yo we sat down Together with the 9yo and spoke about things and believed it was going to be ok. Now she has come home crying that she doesn’t want to go and he’s told her if she doesn’t come back he will call the police and they will drag her out or he will drag her out himself got very upset and broke down crying! When I said I would speak to him she got very scared and said please don’t he told me he will be very angry if she tells me...then to make things worse he has set levels like warning level 1-15 1 -2 being warnings 3 shouting 4 bedroom 5 a hard smack round the head and they jumped to 15 that he will tie them up put them on the car and drive as fast as he can into a wall...killing us they said...and in the middle of them was set them alight...I know it may sound strange but they generally think he would do that my question is now what do I do about contact social services say go back to court but I haven’t got the £210 to pay to go back!
Thanks for reading and if you or anyone has experience anything like this please message or comment xx