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Depression and life falling apart

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GlitterAndSparkle83 · 04/09/2017 13:33

Hi I've never really posted here before but I just don't know who to talk to anymore, I'm suffering depression I'm on a high dose of ad's been signed off work for 2 months and going back tomorrow 😞 I'm dreading it, I separated from my hubby in Feb but we have been on and off for a year and a half, hes recently tried to get back with me and it's just turned everything upside down, my mom won't talk to me now my dad told me I was a mug if I had him back, my two older daughters have made things difficult (they are his step daughters) we have a daughter together who is currently undergoing tests for constant tummy ache my middle daughter is currently under assessment for asd, I told my ex I couldnt get back with him due to all the stress everyone is putting on me when I really don't need it, but I'm left feeling very upset and not knowing my own mind, how do I work out what I want when everyone is interfering? But there are issues with him he's been with two other girls while we were separated and yes I did say I wouldn't go back again after that but why can't I get over it, he's been the only thing that's made me smile in months he's done everything he can to show he does care and wants to make it work, I feel totally messed up and don't know what to do!!

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krustykittens · 04/09/2017 13:36

I am so sorry you are going through this. Has the depression been caused by your marriage or have you always had it? Why are your parents so against you getting back with your husband? And is you question really should you get back with your husband?

GlitterAndSparkle83 · 04/09/2017 13:43

I think my depression has been going on for years, my parents have seen me breakdown and suffer because he left, the reason he left was because I pushed him away but ultimately I'm not sure why they reacted like that I'm 34 yrs old but feel like a child when it comes to them. I've tried to dig deep to find out what I wanted but can't figure it out with people's opinions, but as soon as I've said i couldn't do it to him, I feel worse and just want to cry all the time im hurting so much and miss him (we have spent quite a bit of time together last month or so) x

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