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In pain and feeling suicidal

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Laladog · 05/07/2017 18:15

Hi I'm new here and joined because I was hoping someone could help me as I don't have a lot of people who I can talk to about these thoughts. I have depression and anxiety and for the past year or so I've been in physical pain and have suspected fibromyalgia. My rheumatology referall was sent a month ago and still no word so far. My doctor gave me Naproxen but it isn't doing anything really and the pain is quite bad right now. I went back to him and said they weren't working and he said well I want you to try them again anyway. The pain along with the depression is making me feel like people think I'm lazy and a worthless nothing and that I don't have any "real problems". I'm on Sertraline which does help me but the nagging pain is getting a bit too much at this point, and my doctor doesn't seem to care.

I'm sorry I don't know why I'm posting this. Maybe I just wanted to rant a little and get it out there. Anyone else have to go through this with doctors and being in physical pain as well as emotional? Is it possible that my depression caused fibromyalgia (if this is in fact what it is?). A bit unfair in my opinion, but I guess I'm lucky that it's not serious, but it sucks being in pain.

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Laladog · 05/07/2017 22:21

Nevermind I don't even know why I bothered posting this I don't see why anyone would care

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HeyMacWey · 05/07/2017 22:24

Go back to your gp and ask for different pain relief. Or ask to see a different GP.
I'm on nortriptyline for fibro pain and it made a massive difference and helps me sleep better as I'm not waking up due to the pain.

divafever99 · 05/07/2017 22:24

Sorry I have no experience of this but didn't want to read and run. If you truly are suicidal please get yourself to a &e there will be someone there that can help you. Flowers

Laladog · 05/07/2017 22:55

Thanks for the advice. I went to a and e a few weeks ago from and overdose but I hate hospitals and I feel like I'm completely wasting their time. The most upsetting thing as I was doing ok and then boom suddenly something just happened to my brain and now I just can't seem to cope with simple things and the pain just increased with it and I again ended up in a and e. I've asked for different pain relief but he just keeps giving me things that don't work and stuff that I have already tried and telling me to try it again

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divafever99 · 06/07/2017 06:16

Have you asked for a referral to the mental health team? Or a referral to your local pain team? Is it worth looking into any complementary therapies that may help with the pain? Stress and anxiety can increase pain. It sounds awful for you.

Laladog · 06/07/2017 06:40

My gp is pretty useless with stuff like that. I do see a psychiatrist but I always feel awful after seeing her. I don't know if I can be referred to a pain clinic before seeing the rheumatologist? I don't really understand how it works. Thanks for replying I really appreciate it

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ihatethecold · 06/07/2017 07:06

Naproxen does nothing for me when I've hurt my back.
You really need some different pain relief.
Sorry you are feeling so low Flowers

Laladog · 06/07/2017 08:32

Thank you for the Flowers, really needed right now

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divafever99 · 06/07/2017 08:40

Is there any way you could afford a private consultation with a rheumatologist? A few years ago I was waiting ages to see a specialist on the nhs. I enquired to my local private hospital, and got my gp to refer me to them instead and I was seen within days. I think the initial consultation cost £150 but for me it was money well spent, as I was desperate for treatment. After the initial consultation the consultant followed me up in his nhs clinic at a hospital in a city nearby.

Laladog · 07/07/2017 00:05

Thanks I might give that a go. It beats waiting around for months to be seen

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