Hi guys, first post!
Basically I had two friends in the area, and a while ago one raised a few issues with me and we made up. Recently she's been reported to DWP for fraud. She started acting weird with me and I knew I was getting the blame, finally DH and I where confronted. We of course assured her it wasn't us, and she told us a few details DWP had on her (which where inaccurate to my knowledge and hers). She accused me of asking too many questions, which I thought where what friends do during conversations like "how is DH getting on with new job?"
Basically friend no2 is in her camp. We live in a poor area with alot of these goings on with DWP footing the bill, but I know it's not the area tando be on tjr wrong side of people and I would never risk that. I've started getting messages on Facebook from other parents and people in the area saying they heard I was talking about them (only to friend no2 who knows everyone and she's done most of the talking!)
I'm now known in the area as a clipe/grass/snitch and I don't feel safe. DS1 walks home alone after school, but DS2 needs collecting from nursery at 4. This is where the 3 of us met 
I'm not sure how to avoid the whole thing as she won't hear out my side of being innocent and says I was jealous (I'm not sure of What!) Last time this all blew up I was threatened with all sorts. I can't prove I'm innocent (can I?) and she will never believe it wasn't me unless someone else steps forward! I'm 99% sure she's been waiting for a chance to turn everyone against me. Just needed to vent really. Would would u do in my position?