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Citalopram- Loss of libido - loss of emotion!!

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unmumsyma · 11/04/2017 12:32

Hi, iv'e been taking citalopram for around 3 years, during this time iv'e completely gone off sex, i don't even cry at sad movies anymore i feel like a zombie! has any one else had these effects?

the sex ting is a real issue its really affecting my relationship

HELP

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Airmid · 11/04/2017 13:53

Yes, I've been taking 40mg per day for about two and half years and experience same as you. Citalopram is a very blunt instrument. I am torn between wanting to stop taking it so I feel some emotion, and worrying that if I do stop I will turn back to the panicky, blubbing unable to cope person that I was before I started to take it.

VivienneWestwoodsKnickers · 11/04/2017 13:55

Yes, this is what it did for me too. It also blunted the depression, the suicidal feelings and stabilised my mood.

I learned how to laugh again after the depression was under control, but it was a strange, dead feeling for a while. It's worth it in the end.

unmumsyma · 11/04/2017 13:56

Airmid- its awful isn't it, now to top things of my DP cheated on me due to lack of sex and now i feel like i don't want to stop taking them even more

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Airmid · 12/04/2017 19:07

Unmumsyma, sorry to hear about your DP. I don't know what's happened to "in sickness and in health" these days and standing by and supporting someone. A good thing about citalopram that I have found is that it's given me the chance to put things in perspective and to reflect on life without all my depressed anxious thoughts getting in the way.

gottachangethename1 · 12/04/2017 22:34

Exactly the same for me. I feel so much more stable on it but I have no libido whatsoever. It's causing a strain in my marriage.

PetraDelphiki · 12/04/2017 22:35

Snap!

treaclesoda · 12/04/2017 22:39

I definitely feel it has dulled my emotions. But frankly that is a small price to pay, and I would far far rather have dulled emotions than the panic and depression than I had before.

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