Having one of those days I think, I am tired, think I have PMT and it is all getting too much. I work as a part-time lecturer and am doing a phd, I work 200 miles away from where I live, so travel down on a Sunday and return Wdnesday. My dp is in charge on those days to take the kids to and from nursery and feed them. When I return the place is always in a tip, there is no food in the fridge and nothing has been done. My 2 ds's are also both at home for the rest of the week, which is great as I get time with them, but it means I take them everywhere. Once I am home I have to clean, shop, pay all the bills, take animals to the vets, children to the hairdressers/doctors/dentists, anything that has to be done is down to me, and I am knackered. If I speak to dp he is very defensive and goes on about how hard it is for him. We live near his parents and they help him out, his mother thinks I am a cow for leaving her darling son, and blames all his wows on me! I am just really pissed off!