Relationship of three years has ended very suddenly. He just cracked under the pressure of having to hold everything together.
Only minor things were talked about before it ended, no free time, tiredness, work stress etc. Minor bickering. He ended it on Sunday and it's my birthday today.
When will fucking BPD stop ruining my fucking life? I've had DBT and I know I wasn't managing my mental health well, but to cause someone to suddenly pack and leave in the space of three days is a new low for my behaviour. He's not the father of my son but was fabulous with him. We had plans for the future. It was so quick.
I don't know what I want out of this thread. I asked him to let my prove I'm not a lost cause but he won't let me have another chance. He feels smothered and that he's lost himself. I understand why he's done it but I'd like to make sure I can improve my behaviour for me and my son for the future.