Please or to access all these features

Mental health

Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention.

What can I do to give her hope?

3 replies

HexBramble · 12/10/2015 21:09

A year 11 pupil came to see me at the end of school today. I'm aware that she's having some MH problems (judging from some cruel jibes I've heard bandied around by other students). She told me today that she suffers from depression, is currently on fluoxetine and has received CBT from a local youth unit. She has felt ok in recent months, but a recent party (alcohol, crushed feelings seeing her boyfriend kiss someone else) has pulled her right down.

I tried to support her as best I can - but I'm no expert. I want to offer her hope. I want to offer her a light at the end of her tunnel. She's such a lovely, mature child, socially bright and very perceptive. I want her to look to her future with hope and to know that something positive can come out of her experiences and trauma.

At the moments, all she can think about is the stigma, and the darkness and the jibes by other pupils (she's mental, psycho etc). I want to help her see past that but while I am motivated to do so, I'm not trained and i don't want to make things worse.

Please - any advice for me would be really appreciated.

OP posts:
HexBramble · 13/10/2015 20:22

Bump

OP posts:
TheoriginalLEM · 13/10/2015 20:28

fo you have trained counsellors at school. or talk to her teacher.

HexBramble · 13/10/2015 20:44

We have trained counsellors so I'll push for another referral for her. She told me that she'd stopped going at school because she saw a different counsellor each week and they'd go through the same initial questions with her and she felt she was getting nowhere.

Her tutor is a rather detached chap and she doesn't trust him.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page