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What does a panic attack feel like?

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 01/09/2014 00:35

I had an awful episode in the car tonight, was blue lighted to hospital and the doctor thinks it was a panic attack. I've never had one and didn't think my symptoms matched one. I was so scared. I felt so ill and the DCs were in the car terrified.

Please explain to me what one feels like for you and what I can do if it happens again Sad. I'm frightened to drive or leave house.

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 03/09/2014 21:53

As far as I understand she just went to see one and over time with discussion and trying various things her allergies reduced. Search for a local one near you on the BHA website

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fackinell · 03/09/2014 22:41

Thanks Don't, I'll take a look. Had stupid amounts of inhaler tonight. Something has to change!!

SomethingVicardThisWayComes · 03/09/2014 22:49

when i had panic attacks i didnt even realise thats what they were. I used to get them whilst falling asleep at night....apparently its quite common for them to happen at that time - but it was when i least expected it and was so frightening.

as i was drifting to sleep i began to realise that my heart was beating fast, then faster, and faster, until it was pounding in my chest, and painful. With that my breathing went to pot, and i thought i was having a heart attack. I sat up and tried to control my breathing but by then i thought my heart was about to give up the ghost.

i ended up having mobile 24 hour ECG tracing etc. showed nothing. At the time i was doing something that clearly heightened my anxiety but not at the time i was doing it....(i was facing my abuser, but more than that, was visiting with my own children, and was eager to protect them from being alone with my mothers partner....at the time i felt nothing but jumpy....)

when i stopped contact the attacks stopped.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 04/09/2014 07:15

Hi vicard
My life is a steady amount of pressure with a DS with ASD, being a lone parent, juggling work and kids etc. I'm very tired at the moment. DS woke me early so I feel completely wiped this morning Sad

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 06/09/2014 08:52

The last 24 hrs I've felt on the verge of a full blown panic attack almost constantly. I know with ADs it can get worse before getting better but I'm not enjoying how I feel right now. And my periods now started, if I can call it that, it's like a ghost one. Odd. It's like last weekend was a new kind of pmt Hmm

I went to bed early last night and the night before as I'm feeling so tired. Trying to reset my body but if I wake in the night I struggle to go back to sleep now.

Really hope the ADs help me once they start working properly. But I'm back seeing the GP in a fortnight.

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ColouringInQueen · 08/09/2014 22:46

Hi dontstep just found your thread and caught up. Glad your GP was supportive. Just wanted to say that (helpfully Confused) ADs can actually make you feel more anxious for the first couple of weeks - not everyone - but many people I've come across (and me), so do bear that in mind, and ring your GP if you need to speak to them before your next appointment.

Take care and hope the ADs help.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 09/09/2014 17:25

Thanks colouring. I'm feeling more normal today. Just very very tired.

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Boomerwang · 10/09/2014 13:47

I've had episodes in the past, when I'm feeling particularly vulnerable about something. I don't know if they are panic attacks, but I think they are. I can feel them coming on because I get hyper aware of everything around me, like on a can of red bull. My heart starts to beat faster, and I can feel every pump banging out of my chest. My breathing gets shallow and is slow at first but then my throat feels unnaturally cool as I breathe faster. My surroundings become quieter until all I can hear is my own breathing and my heart, and I feel disconnected from everything. I become scared, and I start to cry, which makes me feel stupid and I want to hide.

Is that a panic attack?

Boomerwang · 10/09/2014 13:50

I can stave off the episode by staring at an inoffensive point on a wall or something, but I've never succeeded in actually stopping it from happening eventually. If I ever dare to look at someone's face, who is looking at me, I just explode into tears.

It's very horrible and I feel so bloody stupid and pathetic, like some kind of dickensian sickly dame.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 10/09/2014 18:02

Boomer it sounds similar to what I experienced.

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TheOrigBrave · 18/06/2020 11:38

When I first had them I didn't know what they were. I was under the care of the eating disorder team and talked to the nurse at my next appt, and she told me that's what it was.

I had just come out of an abusive marriage and was starting to unravel everything. I think the 'safety' of being under the care of professionals allowed my brain to start to deal with things.

Physically, they stopped me in my tracks and I felt tingling wash over me. My breathing became rapid, my heart beating fast and my hands sweaty. They were triggered by memories and flash backs of my past and would hit me very unexpectedly. They didn't last for long, but left me very unsettled for a while afterwards.

One particular episode happened when I was away on business, fortunately not working at that moment, but out for a walk. I remember feeling that I just wanted to get back to my room, but don't really remember that walk back. Now I would know what was happening I would be able to manage it better.

What helped was 1) knowing what they were 2) learning grounding skills (focus on breathing steadily, telling myself I am OK, that I am here, safe in my home) 3) just going with it knowing it will pass.

I still get the feelings, but rather than a full on panic attack it's more a high level of anxiety that I can manage. It's still unsettling though.

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