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I'm going to see my gp today, I'm really nervous

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TwelveGrimmauldPlace · 13/08/2014 12:16

I have had depression for years. I can't think of a time in the last 15 years that I have been truly content and happy within my own mind.

I'm 25 and I was bullied daily at school from primary 7, right through high school until I left aged 15 with hardly any qualifications. I couldn't take it and the teachers did not help, they didn't take it seriously.

It's really damaged my self esteem and confidence. I'm scared to leave the house most days because I think people are staring at me, it's affecting my dds because I won't go to the park or to soft play or anything.

I have no energy, I feel deflated, tired from fighting a losing battle against the mirror and on the days I get myself dressed and ready to go out, I spend the whole time wondering what passers by are thinking when they see me.

It's horrible.

I recently started a new job and it's helped a bit, getting out the house and feeling like I have a purpose.

I have awful mood swings. I am a nasty horrible person when I'm in a mood and take it out on DP, who has tried his best to support me but doesn't know what to do.

I feel like a cloud is hanging over me all the time.

Last time I went to see my gp i was 16 and told to get more fresh air and I'd be fine. I felt like I was wasting his time and I am wondering if it's still the same attitude towards depression.

I usually think about suicide every other day and the only thing stopping me is my kids.

I have taken 2 overdoses in the past, most recently October last year where my stomach was pumped and I survived after 80 Co codomal tablets. I was very lucky and it made me see that I don't want to die, I just want to be happy and normal.

Any advice would be appreciated

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OurMiracle1106 · 13/08/2014 12:19

Be honest with your gp. I myself had an appointment just over an hour ago to speak to my doctor because my anti depressants aren't working. She has changed them. I am (only just) 26 so I do know how you feel and have suffered with various issues since I was 8 my first being an eating disorder. The tablets won't make everything better, and they take a while to work but I am hoping my new tablets will at least make it bearable

Hugs xx

OurMiracle1106 · 13/08/2014 12:20

Oh and my doctor is lovely and is trying everything possible to help me get better, depression is taken very seriously now days

LastingLight · 13/08/2014 12:48

You admitted that you have a problem and need help, and you made that first scary phone call. That's an excellent start for your road to recovery. I know how nerve wracking going to see the doc can be, hang in there. Write down what you want to tell him/her so you don't forget, or print out your post and give it to him to read.

TwelveGrimmauldPlace · 13/08/2014 16:34

Thanks for the advice, she was lovely and prescribed citalopram to see how it goes.

She thinks it could be hormonal too, so I've had swabs and bloods taken to be sent off with a view to getting the Minera coil fitted if all goes well. I have horrific periods every couple of weeks with horrendous pmt so hopefully this will help Smile

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LastingLight · 13/08/2014 17:41

I'm glad it went well and hope the meds help soon.

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