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depressedandmiserable · 07/08/2014 21:58

Feel terrible and don’t know what to do about it.

Diagnosed with PND and anxiety 3ish months ago and originally prescribed Sertraline. It caused diarreah so after 2 weeks was stopped and I was prescribed Citalopram. Same side effects so after 2 weeks changed to Mirtazipine. Didn’t feel these made any difference either so was changed again, this time to Fluoxetine about 5 weeks ago. I still don’t feel any better than I did 3 months ago (worse if anything) so I went back yet again to my GP today. I feel like I’ve been totally abandoned, not so much that he doesn’t care but that there’s nothing left he can suggest. My low mood is severely affecting me, I’m forgetting basic important things, such as struggling to remember to take high blood pressure medication. I was also hearing screaming until about a month ago. He asked me all the basic questions today including had I thought of self harm to which I answered yes. He questioned me further on what I meant and I said to take all my blood pressure medication in one go. He asked me how often I thought about suicide and whether I would do it and I said most days but I don’t know. He said he could refer me to a psychiatrist but thought there was little point as they really didn’t have enough time to help much and recommended I stop taking the current tablets and self refer for counselling for which he gave me a leaflet. I’ve just been on the website and it talks of group sessions and courses to improve mood. Quite frankly the thought of any sort of group fills me with dread and definitely isn’t the way I want to go.

I’m actually sitting here crying now trying to put into words how I feel and trying to give myself a reason not to just end it.

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dollius · 07/08/2014 22:04

Oh you poor thing.

Right, I have been where you are and I feel for you deeply.

Your GP is crap. You have to give the drugs more time to work than he has.

For me' fluoxetine worked the best. I am on sertraline now because I had a pregnancy and never switched back, but I am thinking of switching back now as my mood has taken a tumble recently.

Fluoxetine gave me terrible heart burn when I was getting used to it and sertraline made me vomit. But the side effects wore off after a few weeks. I don't know if that helps at all.

Please keep talking here. There are so many of us that know what you ar going through

DikTrom · 07/08/2014 22:04

What about online counselling via Skype - would that be an option?

In the meantime, could you otherwise speak to a helpline, the Samaritans or Mind when you are feeling very low?

temporaryusername · 07/08/2014 23:16

I don't know anything about PND, but keep talking because others here do. I think you should be able to access one on one counselling. Maybe you should go back to a different GP, and show them what you have typed here. You should not feel abandoned, help is there. Hopefully someone will come on with advice on how to access it.

With all the changes of drugs it is no wonder you feel more upset. How is your sleep? Is there anyone who can help you so you can get more rest - if so don't hesitate to get them to do it.

Very important reasons not to end it - you are incredibly important and needed, and also - it will pass. You will feel better and happy again. Please don't do anything drastic because this is a temporary feeling. You do have a lovely time ahead of you with your little one, even if you can't feel it now- it is there waiting, you are just unwell right now but you will get there. A whole life without these awful feelings is there for you in the future, and you deserve to enjoy it.

depressedandmiserable · 29/08/2014 23:15

Thank you. Didnt think it was possible to feel worse than I did when I originally posted but I do :(

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LEMmingaround · 29/08/2014 23:31

Your gp has really let you down :( all of the medication you describe tend to have side effects for the first two to six weeks and he should have explained this to you.

Can you see another doctor?

uglyswan · 31/08/2014 00:14

OP, are you still there? I'm no good with medical advice, but I'm still up in case you want someone to talk to.

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