Support thread,lets try and buoy each other up?!

[Tyedye]

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Can you get to mums now just to calm situation or is lo to ill?

Or can someone come over to you so he wont kick off?

oh tyedye what a bloody awful situation is it your house or his or joint because if you feel threatened the police could help if he wont leave. i really feel for you keep your chin up your doing the right thing. keep strong.

i know runkid just asked thhis but what is the situation with the house?is it in one of ur names or both?
i dont know if it will help but what i did when i was in that situation(because the house was in a joint tenancy)was leave the kids with a friend(with overnight stuff,bottles for baby etc)and went and told him straight that he had untill the morning to get out and sign the house over to me.i had to bribe him,and also blag him that there was an emergency court order going through which meant he would legally have to move out in 2 weeks anyway.i then picked up my overnight stuff and went to my freind's.
i'd arranged for xh to stay at the local homeless hostel so he knew i meant business and wasnt just trying to get him to change his ways or any of that crap.
the next morning i made him sign a letter that i'd printed out,saying he handed over the tenancy to me,before i would give him his job seekers allowance(that was paid into my bank),and somebody from the homeless hostel came with me and gave him a lift there.

Divastrop good on ya. I no the law says that the woman and kids have rights to the house but dont no if that applies here or not

i saw a solicitor at the time who told me that it would take 3 weeks for an emergency order to come through,and it would only be granted if it could be proved i or the children were in immediate danger(ie if there'd been police involvement very recently).i cant rememer what it's called-a court order that gives the woman sole rights to the house-anyway,i dont know what the lawis like nowadays as that was 3 years ago.
i'd like to say though,tyedye,i would not have been able to go through with what i did if it werent for the supoort of freinds and other ppl who kept me going even when i was scared shitless and thought it would be easier to just carry on as i was.i needed to be constantly reminded that my kids were suffering because of this git and that i had to get rid of him.

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