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Those with episodal mental illness

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Imsuchamess · 24/06/2014 21:21

I have scizoaffective ( which is all the symptoms of bipolar 1 and episodes of scizophrenia). Right now I am recovering from a year long psychotic episode and before that a six month mania. I am doing brilliantly in my recovery slowly taking on more of my normal chores. I am being careful not to do to much too soon so I don't relapse. But all in all I am doing great.

However I am absolutely petrified of the next episode. I can't stop worrying. I find it hard not knowing if it's going to happen next week next month next year. I am doing all I can to reduce the likelihood of another episode eg taking meds, regular sleeping pattern, not drinking.

I have come back from my episode and everything has gone to hell. Social services are involved as I wasn't cleaning (have now had my house deemed acceptable but they are going to stay involved for a while) have missed loads of appointments and need to chase them up (have 3 dc with sn so lots of medical appointments). Have a lot of marital problems. Have gotten myself into debt. My DS behaviour has deteriorated because when I'll I often didn't have the strength to argue with him so let things slide.

I am just so scared another episode will happen before I have a chance to fix things. Also things are in such a mess I don't know where to start. I have so much to do and in my weakened state it's overwhelming.

Any advice or thoughts about being scared of the next episode?

Or how to put things right?

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LastingLight · 25/06/2014 07:38

You have a lot to deal with and should be very kind to yourself. You have already made progress in putting things right, sorting out your house. Make a list of the things you want to achieve and prioritise them. Then tackle them from the top. Don't try to do everything at once, that is too stressful.

Don't live your life in fear.

airborne1 · 25/06/2014 09:52

I managed trough my last episode without major problems but one before was another story. We had social services involved, too. One reason was cleanliness... We had cleaner for awhile, and they were happy about that.

I am afraid of next episode but now I am so strongly drugged, so I hope it won't happen. I am not feeling fully recovered yet but I am not anymore ill.

Iwasinamandbunit · 25/06/2014 10:05

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Imsuchamess · 25/06/2014 10:44

Thanks all I will make a list.

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