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how to get DH to see doctor about depression?

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rylansteeth · 17/06/2014 10:01

When he says he's not depressed?

I've been with DH for 12 years. About 4 years ago he had a bout of depression triggered by stress of work and by something from his childhood. He seemed to get over it in a few weeks and refused to see the doctor.

Since then, he's been a totally different person to the person I met. He is very moody these days and there are various other things that make me think he is depressed. I suffer from mild depression myself and take antidepressants almost permanently, so I know the signs to look for.

He admits that he probably is still a bit depressed, but refuses point blank to see a doctor. Has anyone got any suggestions of how I can convince him to see one? I genuinely think he needs a stint on antidepressants.

I feel like I cannot carry on with things the way they are; his moods cast a shadow on the family as a whole, and I feel like he prevents the DC and I from enjoying things as much as we could/should.

Any suggestions or advice would be great, thank you

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LastingLight · 17/06/2014 16:31

Maybe suggest that you both go for physical checkups? Then you can phone/email the doctor beforehand and tell him/her about your concerns.

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