would you do this?

[Katkins1]

Struggling a bit at the moment, will be better when I have finished my project for my finals in just under two weeks! I really need some support, I'm a single mum live on my own, quite isolated.I have some friends who have been helping at the minute, little things like a coffee now and then, a text or chat. I'm feeling like , it sounds silly, I need a good cry and a hug. Only I have the social skills of a flea, I feel like just want to get in touch with a friend and ask, say can we meet for coffee I need support. But I don't want to impose, or be a nuisance. Or ask too much. What do others do? I have no idea! I know it sounds daft. Sorry.

I know what you mean when you need a hug.
when I need it I cuddle my dc, it really helps.
when hug it feels like the negative energy going away.
like you when I feel lonely, I don't like disturbing people, I don't ring them if they don't. mumsnet helps at those times.

What I would do is be totally honest and say that you're feeling a bit stressed with your work. you could do with an afternoon out and a chat. if your friend can't make it I'm sure they would tell you.

or if you don't feel comfortable being straight, text your friend and ask the question in an open way..."hiya. I'm going for a coffee later..fancy joining me? no problems if you cant...see you soon anyway I'm sure"

or something!

Hedre, I'll give you a hug! ((())) I know the feeling well. x

Ah see that's what I do! Not that bad after all, I just don't know how to phrase things and ask for help.j I know what you mean about staying away, when I am feeling really poorly, I lock myself away and don't speak to anyone.