Help with my dh to get help.

[mum2oliver]

My dh and I have not been getting on at all.We are having alot of problems which are seeming unresolvable.
I and he thinks he should have some counselling.The problem is he works Monday to Friday every week and thats the only time our doctors surgery offers this service.
We are also struggling with finances so we do not have a spare penny to put towards going private.Can anyone advice please?

Does anyone know if my dh does have councelling will this be classed as mental health probs and effect the life insurance?

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Well we have only just came to this conclusion so havent looked yet.
He needs to get to know himself.He needs to learn how to be at ease with himself and other people.
He doesnt have any friends.He somehow keeps his ddistance.It isnt confidence as he chats really well but just doesnt develop friendships.He says he doesnt like himself.He cant seem to tolerate people.He is very negative.He is selfish.He is inconsiderate.
He just cannot seem to be happy with anything.He has come so far in his life and just doesnt see his achievments.
What sort of councelling do you think he needs?

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Absolutely,I agree!
We are just so unhappy.Trying to find ways to solve our problems.
When ever we have had probs before it seems to always boil down to him not being happy about himself.
I just dont see that I can help.Iv tried for so long.
Thank you for your advice.

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