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I can't cry any more!

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KareninsGirl · 13/04/2014 20:53

Hi all,
Am on 40mg fluoxetine (this is my 8th week) and, as odd as this sounds, I can't cry any more. I still feel upset and like I should cry but the tears just don't come! Is this normal? I'm finding it a bit disconcerting...

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MorrisZapp · 13/04/2014 20:56

Me too. I'm on sertraline and I haven't cried in two years, apart from once when DP was an unmitigated wanker.

I used to well up at the slightest thing, now I'm like yeah that's sweet/ sad/ whatever.

I'm glad in a way as it shows the drug is working, but I look forward to being drug free in the future and just having natural emotions again.

KareninsGirl · 13/04/2014 21:19

That's exactly it morris: I feel just 'meh' instead of happy/sad etc. I'm normally quite an emotional person who cries or gets elated easily so this is quite strange! Was hoping it was a short term side effect...

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TheBabyFacedAssassin · 13/04/2014 21:28

I was like this on Fluoxetine, I felt numb for a very long time. It took a lot of getting used to. I have just recently come off the drug after a 7 month weaning process and my feelings are returning. This in itself brings another thing to get used to as I was one fluoxetine for about 2.5 years!
I found it took a long time to get used to the drug, and the dosage.
It really did work for me. I think an awful lot of dealing with the side effects was knowing and understanding that these things were side effects and not a permanent part of my personality.

Sparklingbrook · 13/04/2014 21:30

I had this on Citalopram. I didn't cry for 2 1/2 years. I came off them about 2 months ago and i can cry again. Very weird.

But the advantages of staying on them outweighed the not being able to cry IYKWIM.

Arcadia · 13/04/2014 21:32

Same here on citalopram. Just cutting down now. It is nice to cry again but a bit scary at first. I felt very content on ADs but missed a 'spark' both positive and negative.

LackaDAISYcal · 13/04/2014 21:34

I had this on fluoxetine too. Now on a low dose of sertraline and feel relatively normal, with normal emotions.

Fluoxetine, I was a zombie. DD fell in a pond on holday aged 3 years and I stood there and watched DH deal with it without a shred of emotion. That was what made me come off them tbh; it just felt wrong.

Sparklingbrook · 13/04/2014 21:34

Good luck Arcadia, I have come off them at my 2nd attempt but had a major blip last week. Determined to stay strong.

TheBabyFacedAssassin · 13/04/2014 21:34

Arcadia I can totally empathise with the scary feeling. I am trying to get used to understanding that these feelings are normal. I also feel feelings a lot more physically if you know what I mean?

KareninsGirl · 13/04/2014 21:50

Thanks all, it's reassuring to hear others have gone through this too, and that it isn't permanent x

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