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going to GP tomorrow about my anxiety

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SaltaKatten · 27/01/2014 16:51

I've always been very strong and confident but after a major setback last spring stress at work was getting a lot worse and the first 6 months of this academic year were exhausting but I felt I could manage and my line manager told me I was doing well and achieving all my targets.
Then we had an outside review who disagreed and thought I was rubbish. The pressure got even more intense and in the last three weeks I've been going downhill quickly.I can't relax, I have no appetite and I cry all the time. I just feel utterly out of control. I am constantly cornered at work and given new thing to do that apparently, even though noone had told me, should have been done 6 months ago. My line manager expects you to be a mind reader and seems to have conveniently forgotten that she, just a few weeks ago said I had been doign everything I should be doing.
I know am constantly tensed up, my stomach starts hurting as soon as I get off the bus and start walking towards work. On friday I had to break up a fight between three boys and had a panic attack afterwards. It took me an hour to calm down and stop crying.
I'm home today, I was going to go in to work but actually came down with a bad cold. Not sure if work believes me. So, I am going to go see my gp tomorrow. Not sure what I want or what help I can ask for. I don't really want to be signed off but I can't go on like this either.
I worry that the gp will laugh at me. I did a mood test on the NHS website and have printed the results out to take with me.

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LastingLight · 27/01/2014 17:36

No decent gp will laugh at you. It sounds as if there are very real reasons for your anxiety. Meds might help you cope a bit better but the reality is that your circumstances would have to change in order for you to really feel better. Talk therapy will be really beneficial as you will have someone who can help you come up with strategies to change things and who will support you through this difficult time.

SaltaKatten · 27/01/2014 17:46

Thank you so much for replying. I am looking for a new job and will be handing in my notice in May so I won't be back at this school in September even if it means having to do temporary work for a while.

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Perfectlypurple · 27/01/2014 17:50

My gp was great when I saw him about my anxiety and total exhaustion.

SaltaKatten · 28/01/2014 08:38

Appointment made, I had to do an urgent appointment or wait 4 weeks so an urgent one it is. I broke down and cried on the phone =( I'm thinking I'd better bring tissues. I hate crying, it makes me feel so out of control and so vulnerable.

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