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Moods not normal. Destroying my relationships.

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superstarheartbreaker · 17/01/2014 19:47

Around the time of my period I start to get very anxious and insecure. If I'm fortunate enough to have a partner they bear the brunt of this. I flair up over trivial things and pick fights. Then I regret being a bitch and text/ phone my dp to death as I am terrified of loosing them. Ironically they get scared and run away anyway. Devastated by my latest flair up. My dp says he loves me but can't cope with me. I'm too intense.

What the fuck can I do?

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printmeanicephoto · 17/01/2014 20:06

Oil of evening primrose oil? Or Starflower oil (I think thats what its called). A friend of mine swears by those Well Woman capsules to smooth over her pmt.

YouSirName · 17/01/2014 20:10

You might need to adjust how the two of you interact during this time. If he can see you want to alter things, even if you can't change the emotions you're experiencing, he'll be more patient with you. Simply repeating the way you handle your emotions says to him, and anyone else, that they just have to put up with it.

According to Einstein the definition of stupidity (not an apt description in this situation, so sorry) is repeating and action and expecting a different reaction.

superstarheartbreaker · 17/01/2014 20:41

He dumped me so too late for this. That's how bad it is. I'm devastated.

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YouSirName · 17/01/2014 20:49

What will you do the next time you're in the situation, when you are seeing someone?

I'm sorry it's got to this point and that he's no longer with you and with him it might be too late. I'm sure you'll meet someone else and you need to have a plan that goes someway to help.

superstarheartbreaker · 17/01/2014 21:12

I now have the long, hard road of getting over him. I was such a bitch to him, I
He felt bullied and I only have myself to blame.

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