Was going to post this in chat - but actually think here might be a better place for it...
DP has a friend - someone he met working somewhere a couple of years ago -
He is foreign (EU) - so no family around, early 30s, single (but has had some dodgy relationships), works dead end jobs - part-time , has been banned from the local shopping centre for shop lifting
, has been homeless for a while and smokes a lot of weed...(not sure if DP knows his family background etc)
Apparently he is very likeable
(someone else DP knows - respectable business person knows this guy and likes him too)
I don't really know him (even DP doesn't like the idea of him being around the DCs or our house) - DP sees him every few weeks ...usually out and about ..
Apparently he has been showing signs of being paranoid for a while now (probably due to the amount of drugs he smokes) - he thinks the other residents in the hostel have it in for him, they are 'talking at him through the walls' - DP thinks he is hearing voices - he says he has been to the police because of the behaviour of the other residents but the police did nothing (we don't know if he really did or not).
He used to go to the gym regularly - but can't afford it now...he is really skint ...he isn't working as much as before - and he spends most of his time hanging in his room.
DP went to his room (a bedsit thing) today - it is in an absolute state - really dirty - although guy himself is always clean -
DP thinks he needs help - but doesn't want to get him in trouble - or to know it was DP who 'reported' him or whatever he needs to do...
(It might be 'just' the drugs but it could be an existing MH problem ...)
So does anyone know what DP can do to help him?