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Is this depression?

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Arethereanyusernamesleft · 28/09/2013 14:16

I was hoping someone would be able to give me some advice as I feel like I just can't go on like this anymore.

Since the age of about 10/11 I have always felt down. There were times when the black cloud would seem to lift but not for long. As I got older these times became fewer and fewer. I'm not sure how to describe being happy. Very occasionally I have a feeling where everything feels right in the world and I feel content. Is that happiness? The feeling only lasts a minute or so before the gloom hits again. Most of the time I feel like I'm acting, putting on a smile and being bubbly around people.

Since the beginning of the year I feel like my world has been slowly crashing around me. I started self harming in May as the emotional stress was too much for me. I have only done it a handful of times and I don't know if I'll do it again. I often feel like I just want to hurt myself. I constantly worry what the future holds and I feel down most of the time (unless something distracts me for a while). Over the last few weeks I can't stop thinking about death. (I would never kill myself - there would be no-one to look after the kids.) For example, when I walked down our stairs yesterday I started thinking of the best place to hang myself. When I'm out and about I can start thinking about walking in front of a lorry. It's not right is it? Does this sound like depression?

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HavantGuard · 28/09/2013 14:19

It sounds like you need to go and talk to your GP.

LEMisdisappointed · 28/09/2013 14:23

It is not right to feel like this the good news is that you have taken the first steps to changing things by asking gor help here. You can go to your gp. Ask to be referred for counselling . You may be put on some medication too which can make a real difference xx

Sophiedotty · 28/09/2013 14:38

It does sound like depression. There is a Goldberg Depression score you can do online which will give you an indication. You do need to see a Dr.

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