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How do I cope with lonliness?

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superstarheartbreaker · 26/09/2013 23:15

I have been single forever and tbh im a bit fed up with it. I have been upset thinking about how I even had to go througb my pregnancy alone as dds dad dumped me when I wouldn't get an abortion.
I guess I have never dealt with that properly and I feel unwanted and unloved. I start cbt next week snd am ob citralopram.
I would love to get married and have another baby but im worried my mh issues will hold me back. Its a vicious circle. Am I a really awful and horrible person?

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superstarheartbreaker · 26/09/2013 23:16

I must add that im dating again and do have some suitors but I still feel crap about my ex .

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HoopHopes · 26/09/2013 23:23

Hi everyone had mental health and 1 in 4 people will have mental health issues at some point in their life. They do not always last forever. Also people are in relationships with issues that are not mental health related - I doubt many couples do not have stresses or issues between them. So hope you can be kind to yourself and not blame yourself as whilst you think badly about yourself it may make it harder to build relationship ships? Well it has me anyway!!

annguyen187 · 27/09/2013 04:25

Not blaming yourself and focus on good relationships. I wish you happiness!

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superstarheartbreaker · 27/09/2013 07:35

Whats that about homecwound care? I cant wait for therapy etc. Im also gettingca cat. Needcabuse councelling but how to get it?

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HoopHopes · 27/09/2013 17:06

If you have a child under five you can ask your health visited to refer you for home start support. You could also go to your local children's sure start centre. They have forms to fill in to request support for you or again just talk to them.

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