My husband has had depression for about two years now and is on a fairly heavy dose of prozac. At the end of May he suddenly stopped taking them and slide back very rapidly into feeling very down, bordering on suicidal. He started taking them again about 10 days ago. On sunday we found out that I'm pregnant. It's a complete accident and we were using protection.
We already have two children with health issues and he keeps saying that it can't be done, he can't cope with everything else and a new baby and that getting through each day is hard enough as it is.
I feel like I'm stretched pretty thin as it is but I don't know if I could go through with a termination. He's said that he will try and support me if we continue but he doesn't know how much he could do and that he just feels torn.
To be honest I'm terrified that if we do continue it will tip him over the edge and he'll do himself some serious harm. On the flipside, I'm scared that if we don't continue I'll never get over it and that will finish us.