I feel very low..... but this morning another mumsnetter cheered & lifted me up

[UCM]

I have posted about my suspension from work on another thread, but I am pg, as well and even though I had the scan yesterday (tubal pg suspected as have scarring & previous ectopic). I am sitting here drinking wine, and I have just dropped from being really upbeat to downright low. My whole being is consumed by this crap right now and I would never ever phone a friend as everyone looks to me as their strong person. Does this make sense. I am not a whinger apart from doing it to Dh (who happens to be there) who chose not to spend the day with me today because I am so horrible right now.

UCM, I've replied x x x

Oh and Jamiesam, My Dh is about as gormless as they get, he doesn't speak about ANYTHING, he is the strong silent type. Honestly, its not because he is thick or anything, he is a bloke that says what he says because it needed saying, anything else is a waste of oxygen? I actually liked this once......

UCM - manager might have been doing a really crap version of a risk assessment - think it's the law that you have to do one for a pg woman. It's awful, but if work stress could be said to have caused a m/c, you could have sued the pants off your employer.