DP has previously diagnosed chronic depression ATM but I'm beginning to wonder if it sounds more like OCD.
It's all very odd, he's been cleaning pretty well everything in the house for the last few days and the very small pile of post that was on my table as usual was picked up, put in a bag and I was told to keep that table clear and that I should deal with it. (My response was two words, the second of which was "off").
I've had post there on and off as long as we've been in the house BTW.
He's also obsessive about every transaction from the joint account - quizzed me in quite accusing detail about two withdrawals that I made, and when I checked the balance there was plenty in there.
He's also still having sexual compulsions, not nice in the middle of the night.
I really don't want to use the term OCD in the wrong context, but does this sound like symptoms? It's getting to the point that I really want a single bank account back again rather than keep being quizzed all the time.