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Worried about neighbour

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NewPatchesForOld · 14/12/2012 17:28

Hi, not sure if this is the right place to post this, but thought it was the best place to start.

I have a new neighbour who has just moved in next door, a single man in his thirties. I am getting increasingly worried by his behaviour and am wondering if I need to be concerned about our safety.

He wakes my children up at 3, 4, 5 o clock in the morning, shouting and screaming...his language is foul...effing c**t, bar steward etc...really ranting. Then he goes downstairs and runs up and down his kitchen constantly. He punches walls, kicks doors...he tried to smash the side gate in the other day (we share a courtyard). He came around one evening to apologise for any shouting...he said he was ill, and that his medication has just been changed, and that he suffered from nightmares.

Then today, he started again, screaming and shouting. \I looked out of the window and he literally launched his dog across the garden where she sat cowering. He left her out in the rain, screeching at her that she was filthy, then picked her up by the neck, right up in the air, and took her indoors again. The afternoon has been quitter but he has been banging a lot.

Now...I want to report him but am scared of his reaction. He is clearly mentally ill, so I am worried about his reaction and I have to put my children's safety first.

Has anyone any idea what condition could be responsible? he screams at the dog then in a much more controlled voice he will start talking, saying it's all someone's fault and he doesn't know what to do...however he lives alone so he must be talking to himself - is he talking to voices in his head? Has he got multiple personality disorder?

I have every sympathy for people with mental illness, and this isn't a witch hunt, but I live alone with the kids and it does worry me as it seems to be escalating.

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amillionyears · 14/12/2012 17:32

Does he have a landlord?

3ForMe · 14/12/2012 17:34

Well I don't know what's the best thing to do......
But I would firstly report to the council/police about what he did to the dog.

If the house is rented or council owned I would get in touch with the estate agents/landlord/council

And I'd keep clear of him if you're worried about the safety of your children.

Are there any other neighbours with concerns?

And keep a written record of everything he does that you think is dangerous/a concern

NewPatchesForOld · 14/12/2012 17:34

Yes...the same as mine. Both houses are privately rented, but he will know it was me if I speak to the letting agency because the courtyard is not overlooked at all and no one else could have seen what was going on.

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Doinmummy · 14/12/2012 17:38

I'd phone the police when he next starts shouting and making a racket. Just tell them what's happening . We had to do this when a tenant went loopy. They came round and took him to hospital. Good luck.

StrawberriesTasteLikeLipsDo · 14/12/2012 17:39

I dont know what you should do, if it were me id start at the police, thats horrific, poor dog. ill or not that isnt fair. Sad I would think he needs sectioning that sounds really extreme. I would fear for my safety.

NewPatchesForOld · 14/12/2012 18:20

I'm worried though, that if I report him either to the police or the rspca or the letting agents he will know that it was me and take it out on me. He's clearly not rational.

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amillionyears · 14/12/2012 18:32

Have a quiet word with the police to see what they would advise, may be a good place to start.

MisForMumNotMaid · 14/12/2012 18:37

Adult social care services may be another point of call. The police would be able to advise you of their contact details.

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