Is here the best place to talk about my depression, dh's depression, drugs, side effects, counselling

[uselfullife]

I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed

DH is angry, depressed, abusive
He finally went to the GP, got citalopram.
Too early to see any change, 1 month,although he does seem a little bit calmer

because of the stress and anxiety he causes me I eventually gave in to my need for help and now have sertraline from the gp. and a counselling referral.
Which has given me diarrhea, and feel a bit headachey. Obviously will give it a bit more time. 3rd day!!

I really need to make some big decisions and actions about our future
I want to separate, he is resisting

Do I wait for the ad's to kick in, will I feel stronger
I feel dreadful right now.
Just tired, depressed, can't bring myself to do anything

I had the most horrible shaky spell last night.
Anyone had this as a side effect?

I would definitley hold off on making any major life decisions while you are feeling like this. Just keep plodding on, things will feel better soon. Keeping talking on here.

Still very shaky
diarrhea again
and had headache since Saturday now

not making any decisions