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please can someone help me....I feel like im going to hurt myself.

17 replies

spingey · 31/07/2012 23:33

I posted earlier but no one has responded.
life and its problems have totally overwhealmed me and I dont want to carry on any more because there is no escape from the problems. I cant do it any more.

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CheddarsintheRunning · 31/07/2012 23:34

Keep talking on here Spingey. There's people around who can listen.

I'm sorry you're feeling like this. Do you have anyone with you?

Fuchzia · 31/07/2012 23:36

I'm sorry you are having problems will it help to talk?

Mumblepot26 · 31/07/2012 23:37

Don't do anything tonight, get some sleep if you can, or call the Samaritans or go to your local A&E department. Part of you wants to carry on, or you would not have posted this. Thinking of you.

Goingunderfast · 31/07/2012 23:38

Hi hun! Its clear you are in pain, is it possible for you to call the samaritans??? If you have had no joy here its not because people dint care its mire that we are trained fir this and don't know what to say to help! so please talk to some one who is! Please call someone and talk things through. Best of luck x

spingey · 31/07/2012 23:38

Im at my mums, she made me come over because she knew I was down but she is asleep....there is no point waking her.

I just cant go home.....my neighbours are making things so bad. Im on my own with two kids, no job and Im stuck. Usually i can work out a sollution in my head but ii just keep hitting dead ends with this. I just cant carry on like this

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Goingunderfast · 31/07/2012 23:39

Sorry ive crossed posts! But thats a couple of us so its good advice x

spingey · 31/07/2012 23:39

I dont want to do anything, my kids are everything to me but I cant stand feeling like this and everyone around me in rl just keeps saying everything will be ok.....

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Fuchzia · 31/07/2012 23:41

It is awful to have horrible neighbours. At least you gave your mum to talk to. IHave a chat with her. Is there anything practical you can do to tackle the probs with neighbours?

Goingunderfast · 31/07/2012 23:41

There is a way to sort your problems, you just need some rest and to get the right advice, you have two dc so think of them before anything else, i know it seems bad now but it will get better honey just keep that in mind x

Goingunderfast · 31/07/2012 23:45

Well real life people are right for telling you that!!! It will and i know thats not a help and thats prob why its driving you nuts hearing it as they don't see what you do! But you will need to take action drastic if needs be as thinking like this will have an knock on with your dc, sorry cant be more help x

stookiesackhouse · 31/07/2012 23:47

Thinking of you. Another one here thinking you could call Samaritans. They helped me when I was really down.

There are solutions to your problems. You just need to get some rest and look after yourself and with some support you will get there.

fluffydressinggown · 31/07/2012 23:55

You can ring the Samaritans or your local crisis service for real life support.

Think about getting through tonight safely, if that means distracting yourself with films and the internet or TV or a book then so be it :) Tomorrow is a new day, I think it is probably worth going to your GP for a referral for some support.

CheddarsintheRunning · 31/07/2012 23:56

It's easy to feel overwhelmed at this time of night. Go to sleep and have a chat with your mum tomorrow. Would a gp visit help?

spingey · 01/08/2012 00:43

I left my mums, the cat was making me itch and I couldn't sleep properly on the sofa. Got dd in bed with me.
Neighbour was watching me as I came into the house. ...no doubt tomorrow there will be some nasty comment.

Im going to go my Dr tomorrow, hopefully he can give ne something to switch my head off. I think I will go down to the council too and try and get things moving with getting out of this flat.

For now im going to take your advice and get some sleep before my brain explodes. Thankyou.

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CheddarsintheRunning · 01/08/2012 00:50

Sleep well Spingey. Thanks

spingey · 02/08/2012 20:26

Thanks for the kind words the other night. I was a state. I saw my gp, he gave me propranalol to help with my anxiety and all the stress, Im still not sleeping well or eating much but its nice to have something that stops me feeling sick, shakey and like my heart is about to errupt out of my chest. The Dr was very kind to me.
Have so far managed to avoid the neighbours, been spending a lot of time away from the house which makes things easier.
The council are also taking things seriously too so hopefully things should start moving soon. Thanks again.

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Goingunderfast · 03/08/2012 20:12

Really pleased to hear that! Keep yourself well and good luck. Smile

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