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Ruby Wax's Mad Confessions on NOW

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CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:05

Channel 4. This is it.

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CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:05

bump if you read ta.

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CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:08

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CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:10

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LynetteScavo · 23/07/2012 22:11

Am watching.

So how do you hide depression from your DC? They will figure it out with hindsight.

CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:13

I think she said when they were young. I think they know something's up though don't they?

This looks really interesting though. That poor girl with OCD.

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CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:15

I can so relate to the physical symptoms. When I had depression/anxiety (due to stress caused by exdh) I remember writing down physical symptoms to show my dr. I had 30!

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NaturalNatures · 23/07/2012 22:24

I'm watching, think it's really good so far.

I've been open with my mh since my brealdown and have found people accepting of it so the campaigning has definitely changed some perceptions from years ago.

I'm in a similar position to Charlotte and know that unclean feeling.

NaturalNatures · 23/07/2012 22:25

breakdown haha

RandomMess · 23/07/2012 22:26

I've been watching too

CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:28

Oh times have changed so much. There's still a lot of stigma but programmes like this can only help?

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CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:30

I know loads who won't go to the dr.

My niece is suffering badly right now and her dr has changed her meds, I so hope they work?

There's a lot of people with MH illness in my family.

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NaturalNatures · 23/07/2012 22:35

Can't believe how many people don't seek treatment, I'm not surprised. I was too ill for people not to know and just find it easier to say I have mh problems and let other people either accept it or walk away. I haven't really had much choice though.

Hope your dn is ok Curious.

CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:37

I know it's so sad. I find it's more the men who won't go but women also.

Thanks I hope my dn is ok too? She drinks to block out the pain which doesn't help. Then her mum has to look after the dcs. It's a good job she has her mum she and the dcs would be fucked.

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RandomMess · 23/07/2012 22:40

Another issue is that if you've had depression from a young age to you it is "normal"

The highs and the lows and the nawing pain.

CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:42

yes I suppose it can become the norm and be harder to recognise?

Oh heck I'm welling up now. Seeing the MPs open up.

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NaturalNatures · 23/07/2012 22:43

Shock at the jobs people with mh can't get. That's beyond disgusting.

Curious, fingers crossed she gets there, sending best wishes for her, she can get through it but needs to keep reaching out for help.

CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:45

I missed the jobs bit must've been when I was in the kitchen?

Thanks Natural. It's strange I always know when she's really low. It's like I'm linked in?

Aww bless this lass on now.

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NaturalNatures · 23/07/2012 22:45

Random, that's very true, how do you get help if it's normal to you?

Witco · 23/07/2012 22:45

Great to see this being dragged out into the open. Brave people and very humbling

CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:47

Charlotte's face is much more relaxed, I hope it's helped her?

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Trazzletoes · 23/07/2012 22:51

Really pleased this is being addressed. DSis suffered with OCD for several years and was c poorly. DM struggling now too. She's staying w us and watching all week so I'm hoping she can take something away from it. Glad that people have the strength to stand up and talk about it.

CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:57

This is so right. About the organ and not getting sympathy when it's your brain.

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CuriousMama · 23/07/2012 22:58

Brave soul.

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kizzie · 24/07/2012 19:52

I watched this with real interest last night.
In terms of being open I feel like Ive gone 'half way'.
Im in a senior position at work - just about to start a 'more senior' post.
Had severe PND 13 yrs ago - but didnt tell anyone at work because all happened during maternity leave and then kept it quiet when went back to work.
Since then Ive needed 3 periods of depression/anxiety related sick leave (approx 6 weeks each.) In between ive been very productive/successful.
For first 2 periods i mainly covered it up.

But third time I decided to 'come clean' - and the response was fantastic. I had some lovely emails from people saying it had really helped them too by being so open.

The reason i say only 'half way' though is because i think genereally people (and my bosses) think im over it now - whereas for me its absolutely something that im aware of in the background, and although i really really hope it doesnt - im aware that it might come back.
Also if i have a 'blip' I tend to keep it to myself - whereas if it was a physical thing i would mention it at work.

Im still on a low dose ad. (Even though its only low dose - approx half a 20mg standard dose of something like prozac - as soon as I try and come off it even very slowly i go downhill rapdily.)

From a personal point of view i am very very grateful to people like Ruby Wax , Alastair Campbell and the MP's who recently spoke about their MH issues.

CuriousMama · 24/07/2012 21:29

Thank you for sharing your story kizzie. Am so happy to hear you had a positive response.

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