Hello there
New to this board, so hope someone can help out!
I had my third child 3 months ago, a lovely little boy, but am currently struggling to cope with things. Initially, things were going fine, but then I just had a spectacularly bad week, triggered by being allocated a male GP for my 6-week check (annoying but I really did not react in a rational way..) and really have not been feeling good. Luckily I had mentioned to HV when she first came that I suspected I'd had PND with DD1 but had never been diagnosed (my HV at the time left a day after her first visit to me, so I got a bit lost in the system) so she had already arranged to see me the following week - which was happy timing as it's rather obliged me to confront things.
So, thus far, I've seen her a couple of times, been referred for counselling (initial appointment by phone next week) and should be going back to see GP to discuss whether or not I want to go onto meds. I have no objection to this in principle (my mother has suffered from severe depression for the last 20-30 years and I know how much harder it is for us all when she periodically takes herself off her meds and don't want to affect my children more than I already have probably). Having a few problems booking an appointment due to the slightly mad system at my GPs but hoping to see her - but I can't find much information about the effect on the baby when EBF. Does anyone have any information about it? I'd rather not stop, as I get so little time with him so thought about postponing until September when I start to wean him - but at the same time it's still a while to go - I find I'm very irritable and don't have much patience with the children, especially DD1 who I think senses this and misbehaves as a result, leading to a viscious circle - and I'm somewhat lacking in energy, not least as sleep is somewhat non-existant still.
Sorry for long post - but if anyone has any knowledge on the meds/BF point, I'd be really grateful.
TIA!