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when will this end

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fostermum · 24/02/2006 19:54

you must be sick of my moaning but life is still hard,you may remember i gave every thing up here for a man in new zealand who promptly changed his mind and then i had to have a second heart operation,well we came back here with no money no house no job im sleeping between my mums floor and my car,mum has been in hospital she is now incontanant and got full dementia, my dad has enphasema and aspestosis, so i am caring for them 24/7, i cant forget the man i left behind who still txt me every day trying to keep my spirits up, but other friends over there say hes still putting him self about alot
i just cant stop crying im on A.D butthey dont help,i cant get a house untill the council find one about 2 years they say even though the g.p has written to them, i cant claim benifits with out a permenant address.
i wish i was dead, ive started to smoke again even though i know its likely to kill me,i just feel so alone,everyone wants me to take care of them and all i wish is that i could die

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goldstarlover · 24/02/2006 19:58

hi FM... I didn't realise you had come back over here!

Sorry I don't know a lot about your situation (other than what's in this thread)... but I am sure there are benefits you can claim and I am CERTAIN that they will house you asap if yuo are homeless

goldstarlover · 24/02/2006 20:01

that doesn't help much does it? but hopefully someone who knows more than me can come along and give you some advice.

Cristina7 · 24/02/2006 20:09

Fostermum, if the ADs don't help, please go and see your GP about it, maybe you need to be on something else. If you've taken them for long enough they should be working by now. I know the ADs won't sort out the other problems, but at least you'll feel life is that little bit easier for you. Take care.

You've taken a big step moving over to NZ for someone, how awful he didn't have the decency to let you know his feelings beforehand.

fostermum · 24/02/2006 20:27

he still says he cares but doesnt want a relationship,i gave up my home, job left my grown up children behind and parents, i dont think its his fault hes confused, but i cant go on im tired, i have looked into the benifits, untill i can see the cardiac surgeaon they wont let me claim anything and i cant get to see him untill the end of may which is an emergancy appointment

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