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Emetophobia and OCD

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Taysh1109 · 28/02/2012 22:08

Hello everyone I'm after some advice.

All my life I've been petrified of vomit. We don't know where it came from or why I react the way I do but it absolutley terrifies me. In the last 12 months I have been diagnosed with PND and a panic disorder. What I have very recently come to realise is that this 'panic disorder' is in fact OCD, and that the PND made my emetophobia a million times worse. At the very mention of any illness (specifically V&D type illnesses) I have palpitations and start to panic. I go into 'cleaning mode' - more so than usual - and I wash my hands every 5 mins to the point of them being red raw, bleach the house, and wash any clothes that have been worn around the ill person. I KNOW it's irrational, but try as I might, I can't stop, I can't help it. I convince myself that me and my LO are going to catch it. I get so annoyed with myself because it's such a selfish way of thinking, but I can't help it.

I get very intrusive thoughts as well that are very common with OCD sufferers, like loved ones dying, my LO getting leukaemia, or me somehow inadvertantly causing harm to my DH or my LO. I've had some CBT sessions but so far have not found them very helpful. I'm a nervous bloody wreck and it's taking over my life!!

Is there anyone out there who has been through this or similar?!

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

OP posts:
oaks56 · 29/02/2012 17:19

Hi. I just want to say you are not alone. I suffer with this awful phobia as well. I am booked in at my gp's to finally get some help. Feel free to message me anytime to chat. X

submarine · 29/02/2012 21:01

I have had this for 7 years and I have been for a lot of CBT which i dont think worked as they intended but forced me into accepting that for the sake of my children I had to change my behaviour.

My thoughts and panic is still as bad but my behaviour has changed a bit!

I struggle to send my 3 year old to nursery and in fact because of so much vomiting bug talk I didnt send her today. We also avoided a childrens birthday party at the weekend because the child whos party it was had been vomiting.

I have defintly lost friends because of my emetophobia, and at my worst 7 years ago I didnt want to go on living.

I have now accepted its the way I am and the way I think and always will to a degree.

Would love there to be a cure, or to swap it for a fear of something else.

xxxxx

Taysh1109 · 29/02/2012 21:44

Thank you both for you responses. It's definitely reassuring to know that I'm not alone. Most people treat me like a crazy-woman.

It's taking over my life and gets worse as I get older, especially since I had my daughter.

And this time of year is the worst... there's sickness bugs EVERYWHERE...

I even had the norovirus myself last year... you would think that surviving a horrendous virus like that would snap me out of it... but nope! It's just made me MORE determined to NEVER catch it again! It's made my OCD even worse!

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submarine · 01/03/2012 17:36

thats what happened to me, when my first daughter started nursery she had so many vomiting bugs, and it made my phobia worse.

Norovirus is awful .

thinking of you

xxxxx

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