dont worry what comes tumbling out, if you regret it afterwards then delete the post lol, and nobody will ever know.
if it helps:
Snap on the car,
snap on the laundrette,
snap on the weighing thing for the LO, once our delight about the 1st lo is out of the way, subsequent kids kind of dont get as much weigh-ins, as life with family, work etc just takes over.
Right, next, you cant be doing that bad a job if you are rated in the top ten in the uk! that is a fantastic acheivement, so weigh up how much time on avreage you spend doing it, then just try and not put in more time, but organise the time you do put into it, maybe you can delegate something? higher is better, yet consistancy is far better (imo). Horrendous ex? hmmm tricky one, so i wont offer advice on that im afraid lol. Time for a mum? hmm, now that is a tricky one too, it all depends how long you need to clear your head n unwind. it also depends how old your kids are as to how they can be "entertained" whilst you get your much needed time. I know what you mean about time though, i have a 2.4dd and a 15yo ds. and our new member of the falily who has just come to live with us DS friend 16yo. so time alone not spent washing ironing working cleaning up ferrying kids to clubs forking out money, almost none existant. fude with sis, again, tricky, would say back down to keep the peace and just get that area of stress dealt with, once that is done it doesnt mean that you must return to old ways if that wasnt suitable, but it does mean that the air would be cleared n case closed, even if it just frees up a bit of head space for more improtant things that matter more?? x