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desserped · 30/01/2012 11:29

i have been agonising over whether I should write a post or not, as I have no idea if I have just gone past any help. I'll be honest and say I have changed my name for this, not that I post much anyway, just do not want anyone at all to even have the slightest suspicion of who I am.
ill just get straight to the point, i am suicidal and i have been since well before christmas. i have a wonderful partner who once i would talk to about these feelings, but this time i cant, and i have no idea why?
i had a very bad experience of being in hospital the last time, and no way will i ever go back in to that ward/hospital, so thats out of the question.
i have no pro relationship whatsoever with my cpn or ever changing psychs, my cpn is male, i asked about 2 years ago if it would be possible to be changed to a female psych, this never happened, i cant talk to him, not that i ever see him anyway, so i have no support there either.
i have no friends, my family live a long way away and contact with any of them is little. i havent sh'ed in years, but right now that is all i can think of.
i have a nice GP who is female, she told me to get in touch if things got worse, but i havent. i cannot use a phone and well i just seem to have gone past that point of wanting to help myself, i really dont care much about anything any more.
i have suffered with mi for more than 20 years, and each time it gets worse.

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GRW · 30/01/2012 12:00

I am sorry you are feeling so desperately low, and finding it hard to talk with your partner of anyone else about this. Are you frightened that if you are honest about how bad you feel to your partner you will be forced to accept hospital treatment again? That doesn't have to happen if the crisis team support you in the community.
The first step is to make an appointment to see the female GP you feel you can talk to. Perhaps get your partner or someone else to phone for you if you feel you can't. Depression feels horrible but you can get through it with the right support. Keep talking on here if it helps x

Grockle · 30/01/2012 20:55

I'm sorry you are feeling so low. Does posting here help? Because there are always people here to listen, support and distract you if it makes a difference.

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