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Dr made me feel really stupid

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Thetallestsunflower · 29/12/2011 20:40

I suffer with health anxieity (constant worry of dying, worrying over symptoms etc...) and also depression and have been on citalopram since Nov 08 (though I had these symptoms for some time before this.).
I have bee going along ok on my medication-I still have the thoughts but the medication has took the edge off the anxiety.
Well today I had a medication review with a new doctor as we recently moved so I have a new surgery.
She firstly asked me questions about why I was on the tablets which I guess is normal. I explained and said whenever I had tried to stop taking them, the symptoms had returned. I dunno what it was but I just felt like she thought I was making the whole thing up just to get medication.
I then said I would like to be referred for CBT as I wanted to try and deal with the cause of the anxiety rather than mask it with medication. I didn't mention this but in addition, I make myself sick after I have eaten a lot as a way of maintaining my weight and I thought CBT might help me conquer this too.
The doctor started telling me how so many people see CBT as this big 'buzz word' and want to jump on the bandwagon and its very expensive and a lot of trouble for doctors to refer people. I stood my ground and said I had researched it and thought it would be a good way forward for me and that I simply didn't want to be on these tablets for the rest of my life.
She is going to refer me but I just feel upset that it sounded like she didn't believe me and I just want to be part of some new trend....

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scummymummy · 29/12/2011 20:49

Maybe the doctor was having a bad day. Sounds like you have done good research and have thought through what would be helpful for you. Go for it. Hope you are referred on to an ace CBT therapist.:)

oiwheresthecoffee · 29/12/2011 21:03

some people however qualified just have crap people skills.

breatheslowly · 29/12/2011 21:11

CBT is fantastic. And saying that it is a lot of trouble to refer people makes her sound lazy.

PhoenixFromTheFlames · 30/12/2011 20:08

Where I live you get a referral to the counselling team and get assessed based on how you present...I get what the doc is saying but I actually think CBT is what you need! I know it's expensive because there's a shortage of qualified practitioners but surely it's cheaper to treat the cause than keep you on the drugs long term?! Go back, if you can, see a different GP and ask for a counselling referral. Then see what they have to say.

LadyMedea · 30/12/2011 20:50

Doctors, like the rest of us, have their own hobby horses they like to ride around on... Sounds like CBT is your GP's. As she didn't offer an alternative I'm not sure what she expected to get out of it... But put it down to a bad day I reckon. At least you got the outcome you wanted.

If you want to do some online CBT check out mood gym.

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