i feel like i'm being attack on another thread

[cattjojo]

I post a message on a relationship thread and everyone is just ganging up on me. I feel really alone and just came on this site for someone to talk to because i don't have anyone.

whats the other thread called? and in what topic is it in?

my husband is being mentally abusive. in relationships

Cattjojo

You've come to the right place my love. We understand how hard life can be. If you haven't suffered from mental health issues then it is really hard to fathom. We'll look after you.

I have read the other thread. There is one that is really nasty but to be completely honest with you I think the rest are not ganging up on you or attacking you, they are just trying to be strong in their points, to give you strength and to show that they really think you need to do something about the situation.

I am not sure I can give you any advice. Your situation is so complicated with so many different issues. I think you need to speak to the experts. Don't play down how bad things are. Your whole family needs some help. There are professionals there to help you, please speak to your Health Visitor, GP, whoever you have to, to get support.

Big hugs
xx

Catjojo

I have reported the cruel message from Trifle on the other thread. It is great to get advice and experiences from other people but no-one online can truly understand a very complex situation. You need support from someone who can meet your family and really understand the issues.

xx

cattjojo it's bad form to start a thread complaining about responses you get on another thread. Report any posts on your thread that you believe attack you and leave it at that. Don't come here to complain about it. Feel free to post on here separately about any mental health issues, yours or your husband;s that concern you.

I have also reported two of the posts on the other thread

I hope you sort things out Catjojo.

I just want to talk to someone who will talk to me. I didn't come on here to get anyone to report anything for me or cause any trouble.

What do you need help with?

cattjojo...I have just read your previous thread. It doesn't make for nice reading...your story or some replies. I genuinely feel the posters felt so strongly that maybe they got carried away...trying to make you realise their concern.
I honestly feel you & your husband need both separate & joint help...counselling...relate etc. I feel for you both and truly hope you both get the help & support you all as a family need.